Terms of use

Last updated 11 November 2026

Who can use tendays

• You must be 18 or older and verify your identity.
• One account per person. You must use your own identity and a live photo of yourself.
• tendays is currently open in Singapore only, a few people at a time.

The tendays promise

You agree to the tendays promise when you join: one person at a time, waiting for the reveal, keeping your conversation in tendays until day ten, showing up, leaving kindly, and reporting what feels wrong.

What's not allowed

• Harassment, threats, hate, or sexual content without consent.
• Asking for money, gifts, investments or financial details, or any scam.
• Fake profiles, impersonation, or using someone else's photo or identity.
• Recording, saving or sharing someone else's photo, voice notes or messages.
• Anyone under 18, or helping someone under 18 join.

Reports, reviews and removal

A person reviews every report. If a report is about a scam, money, a threat or a possible minor, we may pause your ability to start new matches while we review it; this is not a finding against you. Confirmed reports from different matches lead to a reminder, then a warning with a longer pause, then removal. We may remove an account immediately for a severe case. Removal is permanent and you may not create a new account.

Subscriptions

Your first match is free. Starting another match needs a subscription, billed through Stripe on the web or through the App Store or Google Play in the app. It renews until you cancel; cancelling keeps access until the end of the period you've paid for.

Your safety

We verify identities and review reports, but we can't guarantee anyone's behaviour, especially outside tendays. Meet in public and tell a friend where you'll be. If you are in immediate danger, call 999.

Leaving

You can take a break or delete your account at any time from Settings.

Law

These terms are governed by the laws of Singapore.