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One person.
Ten days.
Faces last.

tendays matches you on what you value, not how you look. You talk to one verified person at a time, one question a day, and your photos stay sealed until day nine. The wait is the point.

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How the ten days go

  1. Days 1–8

    One question a day, opening at 10:10. Answers show once you have both replied. Chat is open the whole time.

  2. Day 9

    Faces open at 10:10, for both of you at the same moment — or for neither.

  3. Day 10

    Each of you privately chooses Continue or Close. Only a mutual Continue shares contacts.

Before you begin, a few promises.

  1. 1.I talk to one person at a time. No one else is waiting in the wings.
  2. 2.I wait for the reveal. Faces open on day nine, for both of us or neither.
  3. 3.I keep our conversation in tendays until day ten. It keeps us both safe.
  4. 4.I show up. I answer the daily question, even when it's a short answer.
  5. 5.I leave kindly. If it's not right, I'll say goodbye instead of disappearing.
  6. 6.I report what feels wrong. If someone pushes for my number, asks for money, or makes me uncomfortable, I'll tell tendays.

If this sounds slow, tendays probably isn't for you, and that's okay.

If it sounds right, welcome.